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Classes 1-6 (Updated December, 2006)

 

B4U Youth sponsor’s Training

Lesson 1

 

Our Vision

The Big Picture   

Support the Minister

Third Place Principle

Importance of Commitment

Introduction to Postmodernism

Postmodern Beliefs *

   Truth

   Deconstruction

   Relativism

   Spirituality

   Stress

   Holiness

   Mystery

Legalism for Protection *

Religion of Form *

Not All Postmodern is Bad *

Crossing the Bridge *

The Leader as Example

What is Spiritual formation?

Christian Spiritual formation

Discipleship and the Modern Church

 

Our Vision

• To Change lives by bringing individuals to God for forgiveness and leadership

• To Simplify lives by focusing on God's priorities to produce a simple, effective, and powerful lives, and

• To Disciple others by developing relationships that will encourage life-long commitments to God

 

The HCC youth have a great passion for Christ. Being generally dissatisfied with the "status quo" of the modern church, we strive to be a place where openness and honesty is practiced, especially when dealing with the issues facing the church, our culture, and ourselves. We choose to not be silent but to be a voice for Christ for the emerging culture.

The Big Picture

Here are some of the goals we would like to see as a result of the youth program:

 

·         To see students form deep, authentic relationships with peers and adults.

·         To see students be known and cared for my other adults besides their parents.

·         To see students grow spiritually.

·         To see students learn what it means to truly become a disciple of Christ.

·         To see students explore God’s Word together.

·         To see students view their small group leaders as their youth pastor.

·         To see students consider their small group experience as a highlight and one of the best time investments of their week.

 

 

Support for the Senior Minister

In general, Youth Ministers are taught that they should try to help the Senior Minister and other adult leadership understand and get behind their vision.  However, actually the opposite is true.  We should grab a hold of the Sr. Minister’s vision for the church and reflect this dream and passion to the youth.  God never intended a Senior Minister to go in one direction while the Youth Minister heads somewhere else. . . He wants each local body moving together with synergy, unity, and oneness (Bartel, 10 Rules of Youth Ministry).

 

Third Place Principle

There are two primary places in every student’s life:  home and school (no matter where or what type of places these are).  What we want to create for our Youth Ministry our church is a 3rd place.  A place that teens desire to come and be when they don’t have to be at one of the other two places.  This 3rd place should be:  warm, inviting, and safe; a place where youth can just hang out;   a place where they can invite their friends without the threat of having Jesus shoved down their throats. 

 

Many people don’t like the idea of creating a hang out at the church for the youth because they are uncomfortable with the risk of having youth at the church that much.  However, we want to create, in the church, a place where students desire to be and want to come to. 

 

Importance of Commitment

Uncharted people are not just lazy or uniformed.  They are wholly disinterested in church life—often passionately so.  Stirring worship music won’t attract them because worship isn’t even on their radar screen.  More comfortable pews cannot compete with the easy chair or the bed that already serve the uncharted person well.  Church events cannot effectively compete with what the world has to offer.  The only thing the Church can provide that no one else has is a life changing, practical encounter-and on going relationship— with the living God and with people transformed by similar encounters.  Until such a connection is made, focusing on features, programs and benefits other than such a life-shaping encounter is more likely to lose ground than to gain it (George Barna Updates, May 4, 2004).

 

Simply put, when commitment level is low, so are the results.  If we are to become involved in people lives to help lead them to Christ, we must be committed to seeing the process through until the end, whatever that end may be. 

 

Introduction to Postmodernism

There is a swelling protest shouting from the depths of the human soul that the physical and public side of the human universe cannot sustain our existence; “Man shall not live by bread alone.”  We would do well to listen.

 

-Out of all the age groups, those ages 18 to 32 are the least likely to describe themselves as religious, as Christian, or as committed Christians.

-Since 1991, the adult population in the U.S. has grown by 15%.  During that same period the number of adults who do not attend church has nearly doubled from 39 million to 75 million-a 92% increase.

-Young adults today in the US seem the most open to exploring faiths other than Christianity.

-Young adults are avoiding church: Church attendance is declining by generation.

-Compared with teens throughout the past twenty years, today’s teenagers have the lowest likelihood of attending church when they are living independent of their parents.

-The data regarding young people also poses the possibility that churches are losing ground in terms of influence and may need to consider new approaches (Barna out of Kimball, Emerging Church, 40).

 

First off, let me say that post-modernism is not “anti-modernism.”  However, there are many “postmodernists” who bash everything modern. What we, at HCC, are trying to do is to see and to understand how Modernism has shaped our concepts of church, faith, and spiritual formation.  Some of the concepts that are practiced by the “modern church” are “traditions” that are more or less accepted standards rather than Scriptural mandates.  The point is that not all modern is bad, just as not all postmodern is bad.  Basically, what the post-moderns are calling for is a renovation; a re-thinking of all aspects of our church and practices so that we can weed out the Godly from the un-godly practices that we have adopted throughout the years.

 

There will always be a generation gap between parents and their children.  However, we are dealing with more than just a generation gap when referring to the Baby-busters and the Millennials (Gen-X, Gen-Y, Etc). 

Let me illustrate:

 

Garth Brookes is a contemporary country western singer.  As one would expect, he looks very country.  He wears country-western ten-gallon hats and his shirts are country western.  The edge of his guitar shows mother of pearl western-style detailing.  His smile is country-western.  This makes reasonable and logical sense.  We can put this in a neat package and understand it. His music matches his image with no contradictions. . . .But then a strange thing happened a few years ago.  Brooks, in a postmodern twist, chose to “deconstruct” himself and his country image and to “reconstruct” himself as a grunge-punk rock star named Chris Gaines.  Instead of happy and smiling country western Garth, we now have a brooding Garth (Chris Gaines) dressed in black.  In his new persona, he released an album of a sort of grunge-pop music that fits no modern categories.  Garth, in essence, is bringing together two opposing musical systems and two opposing fashion statements.  Once country-western stars were country-western stars, not deconstructed and reconstructed country and grunge-rock dual personalities. 

 

Many people have done this:  Shania Twain and Faith Hill are presented more and more like rock stars than country-western artists.  Madonna’s self-titled record in 1984 reflects the look of the New York City dance club scene of the time.  Her hair-cut, jewelry, clothes all reflect the music on her album.  Her music and image matched.  This is modernism. It fits into a nice category.   But then there’s the cover of her album Music released in 2000.  She has the image of a country-western /Texas oil woman. She has the cowboy hat and the outfit. The writing and CD artwork even look country-western.  However, if you were to open this CD up and listen to it, you would hear techno-pop.  The music is opposite of the image.  Twenty years ago if you saw this album cover, there would be no question about what type of music was within.  But today, contradiction is accepted.  You cannot place it into a neat category anymore.  It is postmodern. 

 

You may be thinking, “What does this have to do with the church?

 

We now experience postmodernism in everyday life.  It’s values have rapidly made their way into our schools, TV. shows, movies, advertising, magazines, and fashion.  They have effected changes in the way we view the world, human sexuality, religion, and spirituality.  The communications and media explosion brought by technology and the internet have only sped up this process.  Image no longer needs to align with its original meaning.  The lines are fuzzy, if they exist at all.  Contradiction is accepted. 

 

A person can claim spiritual belief without living out that faith in any genuine way.  Contradiction in spirituality is acceptable.  And that is exactly what we are seeing.  In the modern world, this was called hypocrisy;  but in the post-modern world, this is simply a way of life.  This is why people such as Brittany Spears, Christina Agularia, Jessica Simpson can profess to be a “born again” Bible-believing Christian in public and also send hyper-sexual messages through their appearance and lyrics.  Beliefs blatantly contradict actions, but from a postmodern viewpoint;  no harm done.

 

Because of this cultural change, we cannot simply just change the types of songs we are playing to the “more hip” or popular songs.  Likewise, we cannot just dim the lights and add some candles to address this “postmodern” thing. We must re-think how we have done things in the past, weed out that which is not Scriptural or relevant to the upcoming/emerging generations, and go after them in a way that will impact their lives through the world in which they live.

 

Post-modern Beliefs

Truth

Post modern's are very pragmatic because they do not believe absolute truth exists.  (Absolute truth is that which is true for all people, in all times, and in all circumstances.)  “Rejecting the idea of absolute truth, Xers believe that everything in life is negotiable.  ‘In this way of viewing the world, since there are no absolutes, all decisions and realities can be debated until an accommodation is reached between the parties involved’” (Barna in Zustiak, The Next Generation, 74).  Therefore, they do not base their decisions upon what is right or wrong; they base them simply on what works.  “For them everything is relative” (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 73). 

 

And while members of this generation who claim to be Christian might claim that they believe in absolutes, the evidence of how they live their lives shows that they do not believe in absolutes (for further research into this topic, see George Barna’s Baby Busters). 

 

Deconstruction

This is one of the main concepts of the postmodern worldview. 

 

Deconstructionists reject the basic, historically accepted rules concerning communication and understanding in language.  They do not believe that words have objective content.  They teach that meaning is not inherent in a text itself, but emerges only as the interpreter enters into dialogue with the text.  To dialogue with the text means that the words presented are not sufficient in themselves to communicate meaning.  The reader must infuse his own experiences and values into the text.  This implies that all knowledge is historically implicated.  Nothing is known apart from its cultural setting.  There are no culturally neutral facts.  Therefore, the meaning of a text is dependent on the perspective of the one who enters into dialogue with it, so that there are as many interpretations of a text as there are readers  (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 136-137).

 

Deconstructionists' do not believe in objective truth.  Therefore, reality is that which we create in our own minds.  As a result, knowledge is not found so much as it is made.  “The words we use can take on different shades of meaning depending upon who is speaking, who is listening and the context in which it is spoken” (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 137).  So to interpret the meaning of what someone is saying is to impose yourself upon it; or in other words, to misread it.

 

The goal of the deconstructionist is to “deconstruct” a text to discover the true meaning that is being covered or masked behind the words.  This view causes postmodernists to be suspect of all truth claims; and they treat them as if they were a cover-up that they must deconstruct to find the real truth behind the lies. 

From the church’s aspect, this means that “Scripture is placed at the mercy of the culture, rather that Scripture critiquing and transforming culture” (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 138).

 

Relativism

Postmodernists reject the idea that truth is rational and absolute.  They believe that truth can be non-rational and even emotional and intuitive.  For the postmodern man, truth is at best relative and possibly even nonexistent.  Truth must be a mental construct, something that man creates in his mind, but not something that “really exists” as a universal absolute (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 140).

 

Naturally, postmodernists believe that there are many truths, and no one truth is any more valid than another.  It is even possible for truths to be diametrically opposed to one another.  The postmodern worldview accepts this because it doesn’t have a problem with contradiction. 

 

Einstein’s theory of relativity has been accepted as the rule of thumb for society.

 

1.      There is no such thing as an objective point of view in matters of physics; all viewpoints are relative in time and space.

2.      Under some conditions, subjective experience supersedes objective measurements.

3.      Space and time are relative, not absolute, concepts and depend on such factors as relative motion and the points of view of the observer.

The postmodern mind transfers these assumptions to those areas of ethics, morality, philosophy, and religion.  This means that there can be no absolute, objective points of view in matters of morality and religion, only situational ethics (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 142).

 

It used to be that morals were based on the character of God (objectively).  Now personal feelings determine what is right for a person (subjectively).

 

Postmodernists place such a high regard upon their subjective feelings that they will accept them over logic and objective facts.  They place a higher priority on relationships and experiences that make them feel good as opposed to pursuing intellectual questions about what constitutes truth. 

 

Spirituality

Millenials, Gen. Xers, etc are very interested in spiritual things.  However don’t make the mistake of assuming that “spiritual” is synonymous with “Christian”.  For postmodernists, all religions (New Age, Eastern Mysticism, Native American religious practices, Buddhism, etc) are considered legitimate sources to investigate in their search for spiritual insight and meaning.

 

Because their world view holds no absolute truths, this carries over into their spiritual realm. For the typical [postmodern], no one religious denomination or religious belief is the only tight one for all people at all times.  It is more a matter of “what works for you.”  Since they have rejected the concept of absolute truth, there can be no objective standard by which to measure any one belief.  Judgment, then, is based upon feelings, experience, and practicality (Zustiak, The Next Generation, 75).